On-Policy distillation (OPD) in large language models is shifting from full-trace KL supervision toward more selective training paradigms. Recent OPD methods increasingly focus on selecting which trajectories to learn from, which tokens are most informative, and which supervision signals are most reliable. Motivated by this trend, we rethink optimization granularity of OPD and propose \fireicon\ FiRe-OPD (Filter, then Reweight), which jointly adjusts supervision signals at both trajectory and token levels. In details, FiRe-OPD first filters trajectories to remove low-quality rollout samples, and then applies soft reweighting within the retained trajectories to emphasize informative tokens. Compared with hard token selection, FiRe-OPD leverages a soft-weighting mechanism to effectively mitigate information loss and enhance optimization stability, thereby achieving finer-grained OPD optimization. We validate the effectiveness of FiRe-OPD across strong-to-weak, single-teacher, and multi-teacher settings, and demonstrate its superiority over recent token-level OPD methods ( (e.g., +6.25 on AIME 2024 in strong-to-weak, +18.81 on Miner in multi-teacher). Our code is available at https://github.com/YuYingLi0/FiRe-OPD.
Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) aligns Large Language Models with human preferences without the need for a separate reward model. However, DPO treats all tokens in responses equally, neglecting the differing importance of individual tokens. Existing token-level PO methods compute the token weights using either token-position-based heuristic functions or probability estimates given by a separately trained model, which lacks robustness and incurs extra training cost. In contrast, we propose Token-weighted DPO (TwDPO) -- a novel training objective grounded on token-weighted RL -- and AttentionPO -- an instantiation of TwDPO that uses attention from the LLM itself to estimate token weights. AttentionPO prompts the LLM to serve as a pairwise judge and check where the model attends when comparing the responses. This design makes AttentionPO content-aware, adjusting weights based on response content, and efficient, incurring only two extra forward passes per example. Experiment results show that AttentionPO significantly improves performance on AlpacaEval, MT-Bench, and ArenaHard, surpassing existing Preference Optimization methods.