Infrared-visible object detection (IVOD) integrates complementary evidence from visible and infrared sensors for reliable perception in challenging scenes. In practice, sensors may fail or drop frames, leaving one modality unavailable or intermittent. Existing methods for IVOD assume both modalities are always present, and fixed fusion collapses when one stream is missing. Furthermore, it remains a critical challenge to reliably estimate semantic correlation across heterogeneous modalities, especially under spectral distribution discrepancy. We present FlexibleFusion, a unified and adaptive method that flexibly allocates integration pathways and fusion strength, operating seamlessly across complete and missing-modality regimes. At its core, the Modality-Aware Experts Collaboration (MAEC) mechanism selectively activates and aggregates cross-modal or intra-modal expert pathways. It allows cross-modal fusion when full modalities are available and falls back to self-fusion under missing conditions. Additionally, we design Residual Self-Paced Entropic Optimal Transport (RSPEOT) to align heterogeneous feature distributions from a transport perspective. Instead of relying on the fixed sparsity coefficient in standard entropic optimal transport (EOT), RSPEOT introduces a residual-driven self-paced update that prioritizes reliable matches and progressively refines harder ones. This design alleviates the additional optimization burden of standard EOT while preserving reliable semantic alignment. Comprehensive experiments under complete and missing-modality protocols show consistent performance across arbitrary modality configurations. Code will be released upon publication.
Infrared and visible image fusion (IVIF) integrates the complementary information of two modalities into a single image with richer scene content. While existing methods are largely built on artificial neural networks (ANNs), which densely compute over all activations, spiking neural networks (SNNs) communicate through sparse binary spikes and compute only where and when a spike occurs, offering a route to more energy-efficient fusion. However, directly applying SNNs to IVIF creates a fundamental tension: cross-modal fusion relies on fine-grained responses from both modalities, whereas binary spikes can discard complementary cues that remain below the firing threshold. The membrane potential retains these subthreshold responses before firing, letting both modalities jointly shape the output when integrated at this stage. Building on this, we propose CIS-Fuse, a spiking network that performs cross-modal fusion directly at the membrane-potential level. At its core is the current injection spiking (CIS) operator, which injects one modality as a gated auxiliary current into the driving neuron of the other, so the two integrate before spike firing, with a per-channel learnable injection strength that adaptively regulates the modulation magnitude. Building on CIS, we construct a bidirectional cross-modal fusion (BCMF) module and deploy it on a dual-branch architecture with asymmetric stacking depths, where the two branches develop a clear functional specialization. Extensive experiments on four IVIF benchmarks and on downstream detection and segmentation show that CIS-Fuse achieves fusion quality on par with state-of-the-art ANN-based methods while inheriting the energy efficiency of spike-based computation, with roughly an order of magnitude lower inference energy than the similarly-sized ANN-based DCEvo. Code will be released upon publication.