Coding agents ship with one kind of memory: documents. Instruction files, plan artifacts, and auto-written memory directories are deliberately authored and deliberately retrieved: the agent must choose to write them and choose to read them back. Human expertise runs on a second tier that never gets written down: situationally-bound operational facts (gotchas, locations, local conventions) encoded as a side effect of the work and retrieved involuntarily when the situation cues them. We argue this second tier is the load-bearing one for long-running agents and must be a harness property, not an agent choice. We contribute: (1) a two-tier design theory grounded in the cognitive literature on memory offloading, incidental encoding, and event-based prospective memory, each mapped to an architectural requirement; (2) a cue-anchored memory model where memories carry first-class trigger conditions over a composable vocabulary (path, symbol, semantic, event, temporal), evaluated deterministically by the harness, a composition no surveyed academic or shipped system provides; (3) a controlled evaluation on a real coding task showing that voluntary memory use is near zero even with a pre-seeded store (0 memory operations in 114 turns), that deterministic injection delivered in every seeded run with zero false alarms, and that 39% of intra-session re-reads re-buy content paid for before a compaction boundary; (4) a repeated-compaction decay probe: ten facts held only in conversation vanish at the first summary and stay absent from 106 of 108 compactions, and the deprived agent greps the harness's own session files to rebuild them, while the same facts injected from a harness-owned store arrive intact through all 138 compact-resumes as the final summary carries none. Delivery, not storage, is the product: the reliable memory channel for agents is the one the agent never has to think about.
Long-running language agents need more than memory access. Retrieval systems can fetch past facts at query time, but they do not decide which experiences should continue to shape behavior after the working context is unloaded. We study this separate problem as memory depth: durable goal-conditioned tendencies written into a small parametric store. We introduce the loop-drift protocol, a controlled stress test in which the retrieval index remains intact while working context is unloaded and goal-conditioned behavior must persist under long-loop interference. We evaluate EVAF, a surprise- and valence-gated LoRA consolidation mechanism. Across GPT-2 and TinyLlama, retrieval is strongest on shallow factual recall (short-fact accuracy 0.956--0.973), while EVAF is strongest on goal persistence and post-unload recovery (0.812--0.904) with only 2--3 parametric writes per 200 events. Mechanism controls show that selective consolidation factorizes into two controllable dimensions: selection and actuation. Matched random gates isolate selection beyond sparse writing; fixed-inner controls across GPT-2, TinyLlama, and Mistral-7B show that inner-loop write strength is model-dependent; and a Mistral-7B matched-gate inversion reveals asymmetric selection-actuation coupling under miscalibrated actuation. Public Memora event streams serve as an external diagnostic, exposing stale-memory invalidation as an unresolved boundary. Within this probe, selective parametric consolidation supplies memory depth distinct from and complementary to retrieval access.