Long-term emotional-support agents require memory mechanisms for personalized understanding across sessions. However, emotional-support dialogue is often low-density: turns are incomplete, evidence is scattered, and user states evolve over time. Existing memory methods usually rely on fixed units, such as turn-level notes or session summaries, which may lose details or introduce redundant noise. We propose FTA-Mem, a structured memory framework for low-density long-term dialogue. FTA-Mem uses Boundary-preserving Window Segmentation (BWS) to form coherent situation fragments, and constructs Fact-Time-Affect Memory Units (FTA Units) that jointly encode factual content, temporal grounding, and affective context. Retrieved units are then synthesized into structured context for answer generation. Experiments on ES-MemEval and LoCoMo show that FTA-Mem improves overall long-term memory question answering across benchmarks with different information-density characteristics. On ES-MemEval, FTA-Mem achieves 0.3871 F1 and 0.6668 BERTScore. Further analysis shows that situation-level FTA construction better balances evidence preservation and construction cost than coarse session-level or overly fine-grained turn-pair construction, providing an effective granularity trade-off for long-term dialogue memory.
LLM-based autonomous agents require external memory to overcome their statelessness and limited context window for long-term interaction and dynamic knowledge reasoning. However, existing memory retrieval methods often lack adaptability and sample efficiency, and struggle to retrieve the right mixture of memories from heterogeneous stores. We propose Exploratory-Assimilating Reflection (EAR), a framework for high initial retrieval performance and sample-efficient adaptation. EAR combines two mechanisms: Exploratory Reflection, which performs iterative search to bootstrap retrieval and collect useful experiences for each query, and Assimilating Reflection, which replays these experiences from an Experience Buffer to refine a global reranker more efficiently than methods relying only on immediate rewards. Experiments show that EAR improves retrieval by up to 17.9% over the baseline retriever on two long-term dialogue benchmarks. We also show that EAR is highly sample-efficient and robust to noisy feedback.
Achieving realistic human-like conversation for virtual characters requires not only a simple memorization and recall of past events, but also the strategic utilization of memory to meet factual needs and social engagement. Current memory utilization relevant (e.g., memory-augmented generation, long-term dialogue, and etc.) benchmarks overlook this nuance, treating memory primarily as a static repository of facts rather than a dynamic resource to be strategically deployed in dialogues. To address this gap, we design StratMem-Bench, a new benchmark to evaluate strategic memory use in character-centric dialogues. This dataset comprises 657 instances where virtual characters must navigate heterogeneous memory pools containing required, supportive, and irrelevant memories. We also propose a framework with different evaluation metrics including Strict Memory Compliance, Memory Integration Quality, Proactive Enrichment Score and Conditional Irrelevance Rate, to evaluate strategic memory use capabilities of virtual characters. Experiments on StratMem-Bench which leverage the state-of-the-art large language models as virtual characters show that all models perform well at distinguishing between required and irrelevant memories, but struggle once supportive memories are introduced into the decision process.